Meet IRL | Queer Speed Dating | Ages 30+

Our curated dating events aim to faciliate introductions with potential. If you're looking to meet someone great in person, our curated speed dating events create space for compatible connections in a fun, low-pressure setting.

This specific event is for all women & non-binary people ages 30+ that are interested in meeting other women & non-binary folks for dating and friendship. We welcome folks to self-identify - if this sounds like the space for you, we'd love you to join us! Check out our other upcoming events if this one isn't for you!

How it works:

1. Purchase your ticket based on your own age - you'll tell us who you want to meet at a later point (you'll be able to let us know the range you want to date within)
2. After checkout, check your confirmation email for a link to set up your profile in our Meet IRL app.
3. In the app, you'll answer a few quick questions to help us match you with the most compatible people in the room!

What to expect:

• We’re a small, queer-owned business and we care deeply about creating high-quality, welcoming events. We’ll be there throughout the night to facilitate, answer questions, and make sure you have a great experience.
• Arrive between 6:30–6:45pm to check in, grab a drink, and mingle.

• Speed dating rounds start promptly at 6:45pm (please arrive no later than 6:45pm).
• Using our app, you’ll rotate through about 8–10 one-on-one “mini dates” at different tables. Think of each round as a vibe check—short, intentional conversations with optional prompts to keep things flowing.
• You'll indicate your interest after each round directly in the app, and you can also make private notes if needed.
• We’ll wrap up the structured rounds around 8:30pm, but we encourage you to stick around, grab a drink, and continue your conversations.
• After the event, you’ll be connected with mutual matches so you can continue to build on the initial spark!

Access Notes:

• This venue is wheelchair accessible.
• Masks are available upon request.
• This event involves frequent moving between tables and standing for periods of time; if this is difficult for any reason, just let us know ahead of the event and we’ll make a plan.
• For any other accessibility needs, please reach out before the event—we’ll do our best to accommodate.
• Sliding scale tickets are available—email us at aGV5dGhlcmUgfCBtZWV0aXJsY28gISBjb20=.

Also check out other Meetups in Chicago.